Unapofikia ujana unaanza kuwa na hisia za upendo na kujisikia kupata mvuto au msisimko ambao sio wa kawaida. Jambo hili ni la kawaida kwa kijana yeyote anayekua. Ni dalili zinazoonyesha kwamba sasa unaingia utu uzima.
Unapopata hisia za namna hiyo jaribu kutafuta shughuli zitakazokusahaulisha, kama vile, michezo, kujisomea, kuwasaidia wazazi kazi za nyumbani au kujihusisha katika shughuli za vikundi katika jamii. Vijana wengine wanasema kwamba wanaoga maji baridi ili kuondoa hamu na msisimko wa kutaka kujamiiana.
Unapojisikia kutaka kujamiiana au uume kudinda haimaanishi lazima ujamiiane. Kujamiiana ni njia mojawapo tu ya kuonyesha mapenzi. Kuna njia nyingine ambazo zinaweza kutumika kama vile kuongea, kushikana, mikono, kukumbatiana, kubusu na kushikanashikana.
Njia nyingine ni kupiga punyeto. Kupiga punyeto ni wakati msichana anajishika au anasuguasugua kinembe mpaka anapofikia mshindo, au wakati mvulana anasugua sugua uume wake mpaka anaposhusha. Watu wengi wanaopiga punyeto hufanya hivyo wakiwa peke yao. Kupiga punyeto hakuna madhara yoyote kiafya wala kiakili na ni aina moja ya kuwa na „mapenzi salama“.
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Nifanye nini nikipata hamu ya kujamiiana au kufanya mapenzi?
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